About Everyone You Date Is A Loser

 Everyone You Date Is A Loser is  an online sexual health and wellness resource library . I began creating Everyone You Date Is A Loser in June of 2020 in response to the immense and compounding grief and pain that I was experiencing in trying to find the literacy and language to heal, validate, comprehend, and grow from harmful and traumatic experiences in intimacy. 

Everyone You Date is A Loser started as a google doc shared between two people. Then I shared it with my closest friends, who shared it with their closest friends, who shared it with their friends, partners, and colleagues. Come August of that year total strangers were reaching out to me and sharing their experiences with the document, what they found helpful, and how affirming and accessible the resources were.

In its mission, Everyone you date is a loser seeks to center informational resources for Black women and femmes; they are one of our most marginalized demographic when we talk about sexual violence and access to care. But, the internet is E for everyone and we’d like to keep it that way. 

We have just launched and are continuing to work on the first version of our website.

The long term goal of everyone you date is a loser is to re-imagine the search and discovery experience of seeking out sex education materials online.